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Hi Ginger,
My boyfriend does not think you can tell anything from a birth day. He says this is all a bunch of nonsense. What can you tell me about him so I can show him that he is wrong? His birthday is June 16, 1985.
Believer
Dear Believer,
Have you ever heard the saying “For those who believe no proof is necessary and for those who do not believe no proof will suffice”? I will tell you something about him but don’t expect it to change his mind. He is the Ace of Diamonds and the Queen of Diamonds. It is not unusual for someone with a low card like an Ace and a high card like a Queen to spend their whole life toying with the philosophical questions of is there or isn’t there any great mystery to life. It is common for this card combo to have a fundamentalist religious back ground but probably not practice a particular faith until they have children. He is likely to be very driven in sports or academics or whatever attracts his interest at the time. At some point it will be about making money and acquiring the things in life that he feels he needs. He will gravitate toward service oriented jobs. He can be a little over bearing in positions of authority. His home will be very important to him. He will likely surround himself with beauty when it is possible. This can be natural or man made beauty. He does not prefer one over the other, appreciating the value of both. He may have a tough time with relationships because of his high handed ways and unpredictability, but if you can break through that barrier, there is a lot here to love. In March he is quite likely to propose to you. In November of 2010 he is likely to get a new job or his job will change in an important way that brings him new money streams. Like I said, I don’t think this will help you prove your point but good luck!
Ginger
Ginger,
I have been involved with someone for the last year. I want to get married and he does not. He says there is no reason to get married when we are happy the way we are. We live together and share most of the household expenses. We have a good life, but I want a commitment. Will he ever change his mind? My birthday is September 7, 1972 and his is October 30, 1971.
BeverlyBeverly,
If you want marriage and he doesn’t then that is your answer. It’s probably not the right relationship for you. Some men really believe that stuff about there being no need to get married and some of them just think there is no need to marry the person they are with. He is a 5 of Hearts, 9 of Hearts and a 9 of Diamonds, in other words, a Scorpio. These are complex people and the 5 of Hearts is always worried they are going to miss out on something so they like to hold their options open. You are a 4 of Diamonds and a 2 of Spades, so you have a strong karmic connection to him in this life time. It does not mean that it’s a great relationship. It just means that you feel compelled to be with him to work some things out. Your planetary ruling card says that you tend to hang on in relationships too long when you should probably walk away. I’m not telling you to walk away. I am telling you to look very closely at what you want from this person. If it’s marriage and he isn’t willing to give that, you are likely to spend a lot of time unhappy. He does have a marriage card from December 21st to February 12th. If he is going to pop the question this year it will be now. If he feels like you living together is already a commitment then the questions may be, do you want to buy a house with me, instead of will you marry me. I hope this helps.
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